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So, What Do You Consider Yourself To Be In The Bdsm Lifestyle..?

What do you consider yourself to be in the BDSM lifestyle..?

  • A Dom

    Votes: 8 18.6%
  • A Domme

    Votes: 1 2.3%
  • A sub

    Votes: 25 58.1%
  • A little

    Votes: 1 2.3%
  • A Daddy Dom

    Votes: 2 4.7%
  • A Switch

    Votes: 22 51.2%

  • Total voters
    43
26 December 2018
348
1,083
City
Cardiff
Here's my BDSM test results

== Results from bdsmtest.org ==
100% Brat tamer
100% Switch
100% Degrader
100% Rigger
100% Sadist
99% Rope bunny
99% Primal (Hunter)
96% Brat
95% Degradee
90% Non-monogamist
80% Owner
77% Dominant
76% Masochist
76% Primal (Prey)
73% Voyeur
71% Daddy/Mommy
63% Submissive
62% Exhibitionist
60% Slave
58% Experimentalist
55% Master/Mistress
53% Ageplayer
44% Pet
35% Boy/Girl
18% Vanilla

I would of thought Master/Mistress would be higher (much higher) as I'm really into both of those dynamics, so I find that a bit odd... and I don't know why I would have an 18% vanilla, how does anyone doing a BDSM test (who is into doing BDSM/kinky stuff have) a Vanilla option, again bit odd I don't really get that (but then I am stupid)... should I be ashamed that I'm 100% into degrading people and a sadist, oh dear I'm a monster :/
 
26 October 2018
3,756
8,122
70

Very interesting mix x
 
10 March 2015
944
2,315
We have dabbled with the idea of going to some "proper" fetish/BDSM type events, but have avoided doing so because of the "no (sexual) play" rules. Some hardcore "proper" fetishists seem to look down upon us swingers. I'd hate to get carried away and get chucked out lol!
On the plus side, it does seem much more prevalent these days to find people into it at swinging clubs and parties, you only have to look at most clubs these days to see that they mostly include some form of "dungeon" themed space somewhere, and you soon draw a crowd if you go in and start playing, and it surprises me how many will want to become involved, although we tend not to be into anything too extreme.
 
26 October 2018
3,756
8,122
70

Well done you integrating the two, who knows our paths may cross one day xx
 
19 March 2015
23,755
64,858
Yes totally agree. This is why there’s a call for BDSM areas and possibly more content and explorative paths here.
 
14 February 2017
859
3,221
City
London
Looking at the poll options, I'd say none of the above. And here's why:
  1. A Dom: While I am a Top I believe the title of "Dom" should be earned, and only addressed so by the sub. Plus, if you have to introduce yourself to people as a "Dom", to me it suggests people can't tell. So, "Service Top" will do nicely.
  2. A Domme: nope, need to explain?
  3. A sub: nope.
  4. A little: nope - haven't understood any form of age play.
  5. A Daddy Dom: see 1+4
  6. A Switch: see 3.
As for combining BDSM/Sex play ... yes please! I'm too insatiable to not have the option: the choice to pick one or the other shoud be down to the person I'm playing with and myself based on what's negotiated.
 
19 March 2015
23,755
64,858
That's a pretty impressive post!
 
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26 October 2018
3,756
8,122
70
We getting the combined tazer, flashlight, escape knife, sonic screwdriver Mk 2 at last ?
 
19 March 2015
23,755
64,858
I don't identify as one thing. If people ask I say I am a Masochistic/submissive.
That is the thing, some people can be very flexible.. I go with being a switch as that hopefully indicates I am open/flexible to many possibilities.
That's the beauty of all of this, you can be who you want to be and open to many things - if not having one ilk/identity set in stone.
 
18 April 2018
477
3,896
42
City
Plymouth
Heres my results no idea what it means hehe .. Mr C
== Results from bdsmtest.org ==
100% Switch
100% Rope bunny
98% Brat tamer
98% Experimentalist
98% Rigger
97% Non-monogamist
96% Brat
90% Voyeur
80% Primal (Hunter)
74% Masochist
73% Primal (Prey)
64% Degradee
62% Sadist
61% Submissive
58% Degrader
57% Exhibitionist
56% Dominant
52% Master/Mistress
42% Daddy/Mommy
39% Owner
31% Slave
18% Vanilla
12% Pet
8% Boy/Girl
7% Ageplayer
 
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