I know, I keep tripping over the pile of sub bottoms. Really must tidy that upMore subs n switches! hmm...
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Deleted member 1030
No, there's just a big nest of them behind the clothes bin.I always assumed you would have some sort of filing system
It's my day off tomorrow. I'll sort them out and bin all the leftover undies (I found a bag the other day...
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Terryg
After some very frank discussions and some very tentative steps into this area of life and may I say absolutely no experience of this life style in the past, I would say , so far, that I am a switch!
*stands there flicking TerryG's nipple, complaining loudly that the lights aren't working*
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BatDan
My last year has shown that with women I'm 99.99% sub, with men I'm 98,99% Domme
The best way I can figure it is..
I see Women as sexually superior, so I naturally to sub to them.
So I see men as sexually inferior so I Dom/me them.
Iam a genderfluid person. at any given moment my mind is between 50%-99% female.
I currently am a TV Domme, as my female side must be sexually superior to my male side!!!!!!!!
true but wtf!?! lol
The best way I can figure it is..
I see Women as sexually superior, so I naturally to sub to them.
So I see men as sexually inferior so I Dom/me them.
Iam a genderfluid person. at any given moment my mind is between 50%-99% female.
I currently am a TV Domme, as my female side must be sexually superior to my male side!!!!!!!!
true but wtf!?! lol
Yes I agree it is but there are definitions in bdsm. Tbh you are who you are, you like what you like and no-one ever fits neatly under a sticky label with a tag on it. I'm a sub and I enjoy being dominated and I normally agree to my dominants wishes, but not always.
Sorry I've been to too many munches and it's amazing just how pedantic many people can be around labels but as I say, be yourself and good luck.
Almost all newcomers start out as a switch simply because until they embark on the lifestyle they don't really know themselves. what their preference is. :collar:
Almost all newcomers start out as a switch. This is simply because it's difficult for a lot of people to know their tendencies until they've experienced each side of the coin. Some obviously stay as a switch because they enjoy both aspects whilst others have a definite preference
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Ooops, double post, sorry. I suppose I'll have to be spanked now :smackpaddle:
Still more switches n subs coming in...
Interestingly high number of switches. I wonder if that is because they have yet to really decide who they are in bdsm terms?
Yes I'd think this is a denominating factor actually..
I’m a switch. With different people, I am different things.
For example, with my long term partner, I’m most often a bratty little. I get spammed fairly often for being too cheeky and my god, it hurts. Definitely not funishment!
I’m also experimenting with my Domme side by ‘owning’ a slave sub.
My life is quite interesting!
For example, with my long term partner, I’m most often a bratty little. I get spammed fairly often for being too cheeky and my god, it hurts. Definitely not funishment!
I’m also experimenting with my Domme side by ‘owning’ a slave sub.
My life is quite interesting!
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Deleted member 7954
Very very much a sub. Although have been known to switch very occaisionally. But naturally sub and love it. Xx
Try it. Doesn't have to be anything extreme, a scarf used as a loose tie or blindfold for example.
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Deleted member 3175
We have straps on the bed and use them, but I'm a greedy person and cant wait!
Then you can't be boring and quiet
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Then you can't be boring and quiet
Ah yes I suppose I never thought of it that way xxxxx