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So, What Do You Consider Yourself To Be In The Bdsm Lifestyle..?

Discussion in 'BDSM & Fetish Forums' started by Lips_Pearls, 3 February 2017.

What do you consider yourself to be in the BDSM lifestyle..?

  1. A Dom

    8
    19.0%
  2. A Domme

    1
    2.4%
  3. A sub

    24
    57.1%
  4. A little

    1
    2.4%
  5. A Daddy Dom

    2
    4.8%
  6. A Switch

    22
    52.4%
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  1. Lips_Pearls

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    Anyone unsure? Tried/not tried kinky play? Do you feel you know where you sit on the spectrum?
     
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  2. Pearls

    Pearls Site Owner Staff Admin

    CufHJeCXEAAlmFa.jpg :sneaky:
     
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  3. Antogs

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  4. Pearls

    Pearls Site Owner Staff Admin

    Cv3TvHkWYAASj_l.jpg Fancy the cinema :sneaky:
     
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  5. I'm submissive. I enjoy full on D/s play with the right man but I always like a man who takes control in bed even if the full experience isn't his thing. Oddly though I'm not submissive with women.
     
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  6. Lips_Pearls

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    Probably due to submitting to the same sex and finding it demeaning and/or inferiority. It's a funny old game aye. :) x
     
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  7. It is weird! People, we're so interesting :)
     
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  8. Lips_Pearls

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    We are, diversity is all a part of life's river. Meanders, ebbs and flows. :) x
     
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  9. Lulu

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    Not sure really, would like to understand more first, I guess being the boss all day would make me more dominant but then the first thing I want to do is step away from that role when I leave work so it would be nice to have that reverse role if that makes any sense. X
     
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  10. Pearls

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    Perfect sense to me :whistle:;)
     
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  11. Plenty of good reading on here in the forums.
    Can recommend dipping your toes in...
     
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  12. Lulu

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    Anything you can suggest x
     
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  13. For a start Menu/Forums/Bdsm

    Lots of topics, see if anything takes your fancy, makes you think.

    Personally just dipping my toes in, I'm sure there are better qualified than me. Trust is a huge thing for me...and it's not just about pain as a lot of people believe. Huge subject.
     
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  14. Lulu

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    Ok thankyou, will have a look x
     
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  15. Antogs

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    Well, I've offered to show you but you've just ignored me :(

    So you've lost your chance now :mad:

    You could strip naked, crawl across the floor on all fours, tell me you've been a naughty girl and beg me to spank you and I'd just ignore you....maybe...perhaps....oh, alright then, damn I've got no willpower and no self-respect :rofl::rofl::rofl: :mwah:
     
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  16. Lips_Pearls

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    lol :D
    Am sure it's innocent enough :notworthy: :censored:
     
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  17. Pearls

    Pearls Site Owner Staff Admin

    @MP386 see this chat up line. @Antogs (y)
     
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  18. MP386

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    @Pearls .... :hmm: ... I wonder if it would work on ....:whistle::whistle:
     
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  19. I'm definitely Sub...
    As you saw with my status I did try switch the other day and although it was an enjoyable experience and something new to try.. it just didn't give me the same 'kick'.

    I guess it's proved to me that I can do it 'if' required, but it also proved to me just how sub I am...
     
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  20. Pearls

    Pearls Site Owner Staff Admin

    There seems to be a lot of switching going on. ;)
     
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  21. Hey that's changed
    Sx
     
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  22. Pearls

    Pearls Site Owner Staff Admin

    So Ive noticed x
     
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  23. Hey depends on which night of the week It Is, I like to and change rolls so i tried to tick all the boxes,
    But they do say variety Is the spice of life :D
     
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  24. Nothing like a good Switch...
     
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  25. WolfieGray

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    Nice to see so many inputs on this one. I chose sub & switch because I am still evolving and learning. Each year I do that bdsm quiz, it is interesting to see things that stay the same and things that change. Here is the link: BDSM Test: What kind of sexual deviant are you?

    == Results from bdsmtest.org == 2019
    100% Rope bunny
    100% Non-monogamist
    99% Voyeur
    98% Exhibitionist
    96% Submissive
    94% Experimentalist
    75% Pet
    70% Primal (Prey)
    63% Boy/Girl
    63% Slave
    62% Switch
    62% Masochist
    61% Owner
    56% Primal (Hunter)
    48% Daddy/Mommy
    46% Ageplayer
    9% Rigger
    3% Vanilla
    2% Dominant
    1% Brat tamer
    0% Degrader
    0% Master/Mistress
    0% Sadist
     
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