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  1. Adapter

    Any Electrical Engineers? Fuck Machines Thread

    Anyone have a sex machine? It's a machine that uses an electric motor to push an arm forward and backward. I have a machine and want to connect it to an Arduino Uno. I can write the code but have no idea about voltages and what not. I intend to make the machine controllable from my laptop, make...
  2. Lips_Pearls

    Know Your Limit?

    Ahh dontcha just love 'limits'. Meh. there to be explored, there to be enjoyed. There for exploration. There to be told "you can't" or "Shouldn't". After speaking to a very good friend this evening, I had to write this. The limit of BDSM play is literally boundless. You have no limits. You can...
  3. Kinky Consent Opening Party — 4th May, Klubkink, Dudley

    Kinky Consent Opening Party — 4th May, Klubkink, Dudley

    It’s Party Time Kinky Consent opening party 4th May Klubkink, Dudley 8.00pm - 2:30am International DJ Shibari rope expert with demos and advice in suspension bondage House Mistresses and gimp Darkside Magazine special guest 2 Floors, dungeon, themed rooms Coffin, cells, pit...
  4. The Kinky Consent Alphabet - B

    The Kinky Consent Alphabet - B

    I can sing my ABC, won't you sing along with me? Let's sing a slightly different version though... B is for Bastinado The Merriam-Webster Dictionary defines the word as meaning "a punishment consisting of beating the soles of the feet with a stick" This may be a term you've not heard before but...
  5. The swinging and BDSM lifestyle crossover

    The swinging and BDSM lifestyle crossover

    Well hello all you kinksters out there in the social swinging community. Although BDSM and swinging are two very different lifestyles and communities they have a massive crossover appeal which I think is down to both groups being more adventurous and open to different dynamics than what is...
  6. KinkyConsent

    Kinky Consent Opening Party

    Calling all you BDSM lovers out there.. We have teamed up with Darkside magazine for our opening party in the West Midlands. Darkside will be operating a photographic studio at the event with one of their most popular Mistresses, so if you fancy being tied up abused by a international...
  7. BatDan

    The Ironic Duty Of Care (tidoc)

    I believe as Dom/mes this is of critical importance. Or Clients, subs, slaves and play partners put their trust and submission in Us as their Superiors. They trust us to stick within their agreed limits and respect their safe word, to push them to their limits, but again respect their consent...
  8. Charlia

    Boxing The Submissive.

    For the past year and a bit, my submissive has been completely disconnected from me. Now, she's back. This time I've boxed her and shelved her in favour of my brat. This is while I learn to trust the two I've been playing with lately. Thankfully they understand and encourage me to go at my own...
  9. Lips_Pearls

    So, What Do You Consider Yourself To Be In The Bdsm Lifestyle..?

    As per title, what do you consider yourself to be within the BDSM lifestyle? We are firm believers that the two can mix, swinging and BDSM/Fetish - and at the end of each spectrum the two can crossover. The other ends of the spectrum - of course not.. but the milder of the two, yes. With...
  10. Admin

    Savings And Offers From The Pantie Purse

    Okay sexy peeps, To give @ThePantiePurse a nice helpful nudge, I am going to list some of their items that I am just browsing on their site. This is to help promote them, which is the least I can do considering the offers they are running for all of our members right now. You can get discounts...
  11. Lovestruckcpl

    'the Cellar'

    Here's a short story I wrote for Jenny a couple of years ago when we were experimenting a little with D/s....Enjoy :) The Cellar. The blindfold tightly tied around the back of your head, a few stray hairs that have been caught up in the knot pull and make you wince slightly as you twist your...
  12. Admin

    For All You Fetsters And Bdsm Peeps

    Hello Sexy Peeps, Well it's about time we added this and there's enough kinksters out there for us to do so. Long awaited and I will admit I was nagged to do this, but dragged my heels due to workload - but this forum is all about BDSM, fetish and the lifestyle. Feel free to add content and...
  13. Curious_mind

    Could someone please help me?

    Hi all! First post for me, so my apologies first off as I am new to this site and only recently exploring more of my inner desires fully... I am very new to the whole Dom/sub scene, though it has been something I feel that has been locked away inside me for far too long. So far I have only...
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