So, What Do You Consider Yourself To Be In The Bdsm Lifestyle..?

[Lips_Pearls]

Anyone unsure? Tried/not tried kinky play? Do you feel you know where you sit on the spectrum?

 

[Pearls]

 

[Antogs]

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That's just damn sexy

 

[Pearls]

Fancy the cinema

 

[Crimson_Rose]

I'm submissive. I enjoy full on D/s play with the right man but I always like a man who takes control in bed even if the full experience isn't his thing. Oddly though I'm not submissive with women.

 

[Lips_Pearls]

Oddly though I'm not submissive with women.

Probably due to submitting to the same sex and finding it demeaning and/or inferiority. It's a funny old game aye. x

 

[Crimson_Rose]

Probably due to submitting to the same sex and finding it demeaning and/or inferiority. It's a funny old game aye. x

It is weird! People, we're so interesting

 

[Lips_Pearls]

It is weird! People, we're so interesting

We are, diversity is all a part of life's river. Meanders, ebbs and flows. x

 

[Lulu]

Not sure really, would like to understand more first, I guess being the boss all day would make me more dominant but then the first thing I want to do is step away from that role when I leave work so it would be nice to have that reverse role if that makes any sense. X

 

[Pearls]

Not sure really, would like to understand more first, I guess being the boss all day would make me more dominant but then the first thing I want to do is step away from that role when I leave work so it would be nice to have that reverse role if that makes any sense. X

Perfect sense to me

 

[Terryg]

Not sure really, would like to understand more first, I guess being the boss all day would make me more dominant but then the first thing I want to do is step away from that role when I leave work so it would be nice to have that reverse role if that makes any sense. X

Plenty of good reading on here in the forums.
Can recommend dipping your toes in...

 

[Lulu]

Plenty of good reading on here in the forums.
Can recommend dipping your toes in...

Anything you can suggest x

 

[Terryg]

Anything you can suggest x

For a start Menu/Forums/Bdsm

Lots of topics, see if anything takes your fancy, makes you think.

Personally just dipping my toes in, I'm sure there are better qualified than me. Trust is a huge thing for me...and it's not just about pain as a lot of people believe. Huge subject.

 

[Lulu]

For a start Menu/Forums/Bdsm

Lots of topics, see if anything takes your fancy, makes you think.

Personally just dipping my toes in, I'm sure there are better qualified than me. Trust is a huge thing for me...and it's not just about pain as a lot of people believe. Huge subject.

Ok thankyou, will have a look x

 

[Antogs]

Not sure really, would like to understand more first, I guess being the boss all day would make me more dominant but then the first thing I want to do is step away from that role when I leave work so it would be nice to have that reverse role if that makes any sense. X

Well, I've offered to show you but you've just ignored me

So you've lost your chance now

You could strip naked, crawl across the floor on all fours, tell me you've been a naughty girl and beg me to spank you and I'd just ignore you....maybe...perhaps....oh, alright then, damn I've got no willpower and no self-respect :mwah:

 

[Lips_Pearls]

Well, I've offered to show you but you've just ignored me

So you've lost your chance now

You could strip naked, crawl across the floor on all fours, tell me you've been a naughty girl and beg me to spank you and I'd just ignore you....maybe...perhaps....oh, alright then, damn I've got no willpower and no self-respect :mwah:

lol
Am sure it's innocent enough

 

[Pearls]

Well, I've offered to show you but you've just ignored me

So you've lost your chance now

You could strip naked, crawl across the floor on all fours, tell me you've been a naughty girl and beg me to spank you and I'd just ignore you....maybe...perhaps....oh, alright then, damn I've got no willpower and no self-respect :mwah:

@MP386 see this chat up line. @Antogs

 

[MP386]

@MP386 see this chat up line. @Antogs

@Pearls .... :hmm: ... I wonder if it would work on ....

 

[Elusive_Unicorn]

I'm definitely Sub...
As you saw with my status I did try switch the other day and although it was an enjoyable experience and something new to try.. it just didn't give me the same 'kick'.

I guess it's proved to me that I can do it 'if' required, but it also proved to me just how sub I am...

 

[Pearls]

There seems to be a lot of switching going on.

 

[Sammy]

There seems to be a lot of switching going on.

Hey that's changed
Sx

 

[Pearls]

Hey that's changed
Sx

So Ive noticed x

 

[LongHairedSamson80]

Hey depends on which night of the week It Is, I like to and change rolls so i tried to tick all the boxes,
But they do say variety Is the spice of life

 

[Terryg]

There seems to be a lot of switching going on.

Nothing like a good Switch...

 

[Deleted member 11094]

Nice to see so many inputs on this one. I chose sub & switch because I am still evolving and learning. Each year I do that bdsm quiz, it is interesting to see things that stay the same and things that change. Here is the link: BDSM Test: What kind of sexual deviant are you?

== Results from bdsmtest.org == 2019
100% Rope bunny
100% Non-monogamist
99% Voyeur
98% Exhibitionist
96% Submissive
94% Experimentalist
75% Pet
70% Primal (Prey)
63% Boy/Girl
63% Slave
62% Switch
62% Masochist
61% Owner
56% Primal (Hunter)
48% Daddy/Mommy
46% Ageplayer
9% Rigger
3% Vanilla
2% Dominant
1% Brat tamer
0% Degrader
0% Master/Mistress
0% Sadist