The Future of Swinging 2021 & Onwards

In this page I want to explore people's preferences and other people's opinions about their preferences.

Preferences are very important to swinging. It's no different to dating for example. I'm not talking sexual preferences either, I mean towards others.
You kind of know what your type is, who you're looking for and who you think aligns with what you're seeking as a couple.

But what about what other people think about your preferences?
Most will say - "I don't care what other people think about our preferences.." - which is fair enough.
But there's a preference and then using dinosaur language to express it.

Not going woke here either.
But we have to face the reality that times have changed. A lot of us may well be set in our ways and that's fine, but there are newer faces coming through the door. This site alone is creeping into a decade old.
Imagine ten years ago with swinging to where it is now?

For it to advance, continue to flourish & grow, the lifestyle has to adapt to a new way of thinking!
Not just that, but a different approach to speaking and how one portrays themselves to others too.

A perfect example of this would be the way that some crossdressers are viewed. (I am using this as a generic example).
The term Tranny is deeply offensive to some, but fine with others. Personally I think it's not a nice thing to say about someone who enjoys dressing up in ladies' clothes. I wouldn't use it on someone nor say it to them.
Yet there are members here who would. That kind of language has to change.

Single men. Fucking hell don't we know that single men are the scrapheap of the swinging world..
Well I am sorry but you're wrong.
Single men are as much as an attribute to swinging as what single ladies are!
Without men involved, you couldn't have your MMF 3sum, your spit roast etc
Just as you couldn't have MFF without a lady.

I think it's always important to understand that behind the screen, there is a person.
In order for this lifestyle to continue, to progress, it has to be more open and more inclusive to all.

Your preferences may not, probably will not suit others. Just as theirs won't suit or appeal to you.
But that doesn't mean you nor they should be offensive about it either.

Having a preference is normal, it's healthy and part of being a human being.
Just don't be a plank when talking about them. Think about the person you may be talking about!