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I know I included both as people often use them somewhat interchangeably, and until people start to explore often don't know whether they want an open relationship, a poly realationship, or one where they go to a swing club (or party) every now and then.
There are plenty of dating sites out there. It's something we would never allow, not when this is purely a swinging site. Sorry. We may start a dating site though
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Thing is we speak to many people when they first join, all staff do and it's mostly questions about how swinging works. These new members when they initially join have no clue what to expect and so it's our job to educate and advice the best we can, I know @Miss-Sexy-Legs will agree on this as we spend so much time in PMs with new members.
So as @Lulu mentioned we spoke and again I offered my help regarding what swinging is, this is when we got talking about dating and if there was much difference in it. After a very long chat I think we finally got there.
We have had men here that have wanted relationships after meeting, one lady even sent a report because this person couldn't understand why she didn't want a relationship (he ended up being banned for many other reasons also. He got very stalkerish.
So this is why we try to educate as much as we can and make threads that are educational, we have a new generation now of swingers, young people who have no idea what it's all about and are confused between swinging and dating. If we can help with keeping swinging swinging then our job is complete.
your spot on there and i know you all do a grand job 
There is defiantly a bias against single gents when it comes to clubs, i was thinking about joining chams but after looking the membership fee for a single gent which is £85 and restrictions when you are allowed in i decided it wasn't worth the cost .Having just read what @MP386 has said i have to agree with him it is so much harder for single guys to get meets and self employment does play a big part in your life as when the work is available then you have to do it also it don't seem fair to us that not only do single guys here have to pay the most to get into clubs but also they can only go on certain nights and also clubs only let in a certain amount. I get it on the club part as they would have a lot more single guys than anything else but the cost i do not.
Back to the thread we would travel all over if we had the funds and travel was not so expensive as we rely on public transport most of the time, my cousin does have a car but we 1 don't think its fair to get him to drive us plus he is not a taxi service and 2 he cannot drive to far of a distance due to his health. On our budget along we some unexpected life issues lately we would have to save up for some weeks before we could meet up with anyone too.
So people ask should we be in the swinging lifestyle? answer for us is yes why not it is a barrier but like i posted earlier we do have a couple of meets soon, which we are both looking forward too
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Have I??Who says dating isn't allowed?
Think you've missed the point of the thread
Yes. You've taken @Pearls comment out of context (it was about not allowing a dating section on the site). Vans comment explains clearly what we are talking about. Sometimes people join swinging sites purely looking for a relationship, not swinging. There are other sites for this. Ours isn't one. It has been clearly stated, several times throughout this thread, that sometimes relationships happen through swinging. These are not 'frowned upon' but celebrated.
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Me too heard nice things about you xxjxxgreat thread @Pearls just had a nice pint and chat with Nigel @Nigel&Julie looking forward to meeting Julie at party
hope to meet more in the future xxjxx
I certainly do Mr B. How damned odd and how rude of them!
Exactly ^ x
Precisely this too.
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Oh ello,I certainly do Mr B. How damned odd and how rude of them!
Exactly ^ x
Precisely this too.
Shake them up?Oh ello,
This was a test dear, just a little shake em up a bit but all is good
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