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Not sure if this the right thread but has any one used the discover swinging-couples site? Been getting a few notifications from it however I suspect it's bull to get payment details.
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I googled "discover swinging-couples" and all I got was a request to register with my email address. No info about the group.
So, I smell SPAM.
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I have the same experience mate. Unfortunately there are a lot of single males who do and say things which are disrespectful on these sites and give us all a bad name. You can only be true to yourself, treat people as you would like to be treated and persevere... Good luck.
Sorry about that to all men out there
You should never ever go somewhere that you never feel safe or be with someone who you do not feel totally safe and confident with, you will not enjoy yourself if you are worried about anything.
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We should have more rights in law to stop that kind of thing, I have spent many years fighting people in different courts for saying things that are untrue so if anyone is needing any help please please just ask
Been on "there" for about 13 years, and had the good, the bad, and the desperate! We have made loads of fantastic friends. Like any site, if you use it and any tools it has to limit who can contact you, then it shouldnt be too bad. you get idiots on every site, with experience you develop a 6th sense to help weed out the dreamers, fantasists and wannabees. We like the social side of swinging, and when a site enables people to come together and encourages socials (like this one), then we get hooked.
How do you tell the difference
between " dreamers, fantasists and wannabees" and the rest?
I suppose I have to ask being, but what is drabs. I have lead a very sheltered life, but am willing to be led to the dark side.
We don't refer to the site in question by it's proper name, but drab mingers sounds like, get my drift. If you figure it out and dare to venture onto that site all I can say is be carefull it's not the dark side but it certainly isn't all they claim it is.
I had a profile on there from the very early days and saw it grow and change over the years from a free site into a commercial enterprise with a huge turnover. Thats whe the rot realy set in IMHO. I am also banned on there because I dared to answer a question and they didn't like my answer.
It can be difficult, but some make it fairly obvious. At one end of the scale, profiles that have only male pics, but claim to be a couple is a fairly obvious one, especially the longer they have been on site. Then its picking up on other red flags, a single guy thats only on very late at night (had to wait for the missus to go to bed lol) or a "female" who's pics turn out to be from the web. With couples, it can be harder to pin it down, they can have a real profile, in that they are a couple, yet they don't seem to be able to commit to meeting... real life does throw curveballs into the mix (we currently are finding it hard to find time for anything other than work, family and caring for a very ill relative). But the longer it goes on, the more likely it is that they like the idea, the fantasy, of swinging, but the reality is they wont ever actually take that final step and do it. Some may even attend group socials, or even 1-2-1 socials, safe in the knowledge that they can dip a toe in, and be "seen on the scene" but not have to bump uglies with others lol. Some love to swap long, erotic messages going into detail about what they would like to do, collect pics, and generally get their jollies online without having to put in the legwork for real and actually meet.
Sites with some form of verification process are helpful, but this can be a double-edged sword...just because a couple or single have veries saying others have socialised with them, doesn't mean they are a dyed-in-the-wool, bona-fide swinger, it just means others have spent time in their company in a social setting.
Bottom line, it's all down to you and your tolerance for BS...how long do you get strung along, how many potential red-flags do you ignore before you decide to cut your losses and concentrate your efforts elsewhere.
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We were there years and as said previously not for us, if you want bullying by not only members but staff because your face don’t fit then jump in, you’d be brave to have an opinion in those forums….
Report and the same account rejoins, security is shit especially if you want to keep your identity private.
If you support sex with minors and drug dealers sign up
It’s a very well made site to make money because the owner has targeted these sorts of people and the turn over is millions but while it’s up and running then we are safe from these people.
The handful of friends we made have also left for the same reasons, it comes down to morals, for us we simply couldn’t support a site that has zero standards and to have filters to keep those standards are a joke when you’re paying for a service.
My advice is join and see for yourself, sit in the forums and watch, you’ll spot a handful of account including mods and you’ll see what I mean.
Report and the same account rejoins, security is shit especially if you want to keep your identity private.
If you support sex with minors and drug dealers sign up
It’s a very well made site to make money because the owner has targeted these sorts of people and the turn over is millions but while it’s up and running then we are safe from these people.
The handful of friends we made have also left for the same reasons, it comes down to morals, for us we simply couldn’t support a site that has zero standards and to have filters to keep those standards are a joke when you’re paying for a service.
My advice is join and see for yourself, sit in the forums and watch, you’ll spot a handful of account including mods and you’ll see what I mean.
I once reported someone on there who asked me do I want to watch them fucking an animal. Still there to this day.
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Shocking but they pay using multiple accounts
It got reported and nothing happened they didn’t care because the member was paying I assume. Absolutely vileShocking but they pay using multiple accounts
Shame the author of this thread is on the dark side. I have tried getting her back but she doesn’t want to be a hypocrite 
So that explains the ghosting then.Shame the author of this thread is on the dark side. I have tried getting her back but she doesn’t want to be a hypocrite
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Waste of time, as a mother I simply couldn’t support a place that supports child abuse for money. That tells me the owner must be a kiddie fiddler or a dealer. As for the author….Shame the author of this thread is on the dark side. I have tried getting her back but she doesn’t want to be a hypocrite
What do you mean by the child abuse what do you know?. I’ve tried, I think shes just embarrassed to come back tbh she’s a funny woman but she means wellWaste of time, as a mother I simply couldn’t support a place that supports child abuse for money. That tells me the owner must be a kiddie fiddler or a dealer. As for the author….
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Don’t you get messages off men asking to shag your daughter or little sister whilst the mother watches?
Report them and they open another account, I screen shotted some,
As for incest, that’s worse
As for skips, I’m only interested in members here.
Yep and open incest on the forums. Drugs, prostitution (no issue with that but they're using working girls to make money).Don’t you get messages off men asking to shag your daughter or little sister whilst the mother watches?
Report them and they open another account, I screen shotted some,
As for incest, that’s worse
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