Size does not matter

[MP386]

The “SIZE” issue when I get back from Folkestone tonight I am going to post something here that I don’t think I have ever told anyone about me and my life ...
I don’t know if it will but hopefully it will put a perspective on how I feel about size .. I’ll let you all be the judge and jury ....

 

[Deleted member 16044]

Some of you will see me next weekend as I find it hard to guage people by just texting on a screen
I am looking forward to my concert in Knebworth park ...as my hotel is right in it. I have a massive room, will turn up around 2pm, unpack and go and explore. See some of you then
I find texting cold and meaningless
I prefer to meet and talk in person
as for me being here a week, pudding for everyone except the tart! I can heat up a sausage roll lol

 

[DandDforfun]

Can’t argue with that I’ve only got a little one
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I’ve got one of them too, perfect size I find ?

 

[Dangerous690]

I’ve got one of them too, perfect size I find ?

Made to measure!?

 

[MP386]

The “SIZE” issue when I get back from Folkestone tonight I am going to post something here that I don’t think I have ever told anyone about me and my life ...
I don’t know if it will but hopefully it will put a perspective on how I feel about size .. I’ll let you all be the judge and jury ....

Ok I said I’d come back to this it may take me a while to type , it may alienate me more with some ... this site has always been about having fun , the owners have put a huge amount into making this work for everyone to be all inclusive, but the last few days it’s been a bit tense , ok some may be down to my over flirty welcomes to people....people coming off other site with jaded views of swinging and the motives of those that do .. ... so it may be long winded , there will be spelling and grammar mistakes for the police out there ...
so all of you out there can judge me ,good or bad .. the “size issue “ TBC

 

[Pearls]

Ok I said I’d come back to this it may take me a while to type , it may alienate me more with some ... this site has always been about having fun , the owners have put a huge amount into making this work for everyone to be all inclusive, but the last few days it’s been a bit tense , ok some may be down to my over flirty welcomes to people....people coming off other site with jaded views of swinging and the motives of those that do .. ... so it may be long winded , there will be spelling and grammar mistakes for the police out there ...
so all of you out there can judge me ,good or bad .. the “size issue “ TBC

So what you saying ?

 

[MP386]

So what you saying ?

Give me a chance that bits coming ...,

 

[Pearls]

Give me a chance that bits coming ...,

Hurry up then

 

[Deleted member 16044]

Made to measure!?

he is saying I am made to measure although the post is about fuller figures of humans not car drawings x

 

[MP386]

Ok I said I’d come back to this it may take me a while to type , it may alienate me more with some ... this site has always been about having fun , the owners have put a huge amount into making this work for everyone to be all inclusive, but the last few days it’s been a bit tense , ok some may be down to my over flirty welcomes to people....people coming off other site with jaded views of swinging and the motives of those that do .. ... so it may be long winded , there will be spelling and grammar mistakes for the police out there ...
so all of you out there can judge me ,good or bad .. the “size issue “ TBC

Ok so here goes ... 1st this isn’t for sympathy, fishing for compliments, hoping for a shag ...
Basically I’ve been accused of ignoring someone because of their size , now has nothing to do with size more their attitude towards me ,I don’t do this for grief ,if this isn’t fun then there’s no point to be here ... we all interpret things differently and I may be wrong ...
So size , ever since I was born ( yes before England last won the World Cup ) I have been over weight “Fat “ no other word for it , I was put on diets which never seemed to work , all my life I was the “Fat Kid “ and endured all that came with it ...
As you grow up obviously you notice girls and certain things happening , being the Fat kid that no ones interested in , no one want to be seen with you eventually after knock back after knock back ... as with most things I buried my head in the sand ,telling myself I don’t need it ...I just accepted I was Fat and undesirable and no one was interested... because of my size ...
I completely understand how it is to be made to feel unsexy or ugly ... had that all my life , never had any woman say they love me or want to be with me , I won’t ever have anyone call me dad or granddad , won’t grow old with anyone ,this has nothing to do with swinging but is a direct result of how I feel about my size this is a constant thing that I think about regularly .. not that I want or am looking for anything like that ..
and that’s not what Swinging is about ...
So the whole size issue is quite close to home ... there’s been lots of vailed digs which do seem directed at me , I may be wrong , interpretation again ....
do I need to tone it down, do I offend people that much .... The only size that is important to me is mine ..

 

[Deleted member 3411]

Ok so here goes ... 1st this isn’t for sympathy, fishing for compliments, hoping for a shag ...
Basically I’ve been accused of ignoring someone because of their size , now has nothing to do with size more their attitude towards me ,I don’t do this for grief ,if this isn’t fun then there’s no point to be here ... we all interpret things differently and I may be wrong ...
So size , ever since I was born ( yes before England last won the World Cup ) I have been over weight “Fat “ no other word for it , I was put on diets which never seemed to work , all my life I was the “Fat Kid “ and endured all that came with it ...
As you grow up obviously you notice girls and certain things happening , being the Fat kid that no ones interested in , no one want to be seen with you eventually after knock back after knock back ... as with most things I buried my head in the sand ,telling myself I don’t need it ...I just accepted I was Fat and undesirable and no one was interested... because of my size ...
I completely understand how it is to be made to feel unsexy or ugly ... had that all my life , never had any woman say they love me or want to be with me , I won’t ever have anyone call me dad or granddad , won’t grow old with anyone ,this has nothing to do with swinging but is a direct result of how I feel about my size this is a constant thing that I think about regularly .. not that I want or am looking for anything like that ..
and that’s not what Swinging is about ...
So the whole size issue is quite close to home ... there’s been lots of vailed digs which do seem directed at me , I may be wrong , interpretation again ....
do I need to tone it down, do I offend people that much .... The only size that is important to me is mine ..

In all fairness to you MP yes size was the catalyst , but the reason was others bad attitude towards you. I'm tall and slim, but just like you my confidence was shot. I started swinging for two reasons, to enjoy the naughty fun and to prove I was desirable. L came along later and without knowing of a mutual interest at first. Size matters because those with low attitudes try to drag others down.

 

[Pearls]

In all fairness to you MP yes size was the catalyst , but the reason was others bad attitude towards you. I'm tall and slim, but just like you my confidence was shot. I started swinging for two reasons, to enjoy the naughty fun and to prove I was desirable. L came along later and without knowing of a mutual interest at first. Size matters because those with low attitudes try to drag others down.

So if size matters to some then they have a low attitude?

 

[Deleted member 16044]

This is for everyone who is of the more fuller figure, it is okay to feel sexy and good, you do not have to dress to impress, do it for you and embrace your body.
I am tired of seeing magazines full of the other figure because for years that is all the media portrays
I hate it when guys message me and say 'big tits they must be heavy '

thanks x

 

[Jaynerobert]

Ok so here goes ... 1st this isn’t for sympathy, fishing for compliments, hoping for a shag ...
Basically I’ve been accused of ignoring someone because of their size , now has nothing to do with size more their attitude towards me ,I don’t do this for grief ,if this isn’t fun then there’s no point to be here ... we all interpret things differently and I may be wrong ...
So size , ever since I was born ( yes before England last won the World Cup ) I have been over weight “Fat “ no other word for it , I was put on diets which never seemed to work , all my life I was the “Fat Kid “ and endured all that came with it ...
As you grow up obviously you notice girls and certain things happening , being the Fat kid that no ones interested in , no one want to be seen with you eventually after knock back after knock back ... as with most things I buried my head in the sand ,telling myself I don’t need it ...I just accepted I was Fat and undesirable and no one was interested... because of my size ...
I completely understand how it is to be made to feel unsexy or ugly ... had that all my life , never had any woman say they love me or want to be with me , I won’t ever have anyone call me dad or granddad , won’t grow old with anyone ,this has nothing to do with swinging but is a direct result of how I feel about my size this is a constant thing that I think about regularly .. not that I want or am looking for anything like that ..
and that’s not what Swinging is about ...
So the whole size issue is quite close to home ... there’s been lots of vailed digs which do seem directed at me , I may be wrong , interpretation again ....
do I need to tone it down, do I offend people that much .... The only size that is important to me is mine ..

Nice work getting that out there. I think sometimes it’s quite cathartic to bear all. Also close to home here, you know that.

As I said yesterday live and let live. We are all here for some fun and not to get bogged down. x

 

[Deleted member 16044]

This is for everyone who is of the more fuller figure, it is okay to feel sexy and good, you do not have to dress to impress, do it for you and embrace your body.
I am tired of seeing magazines full of the other figure because for years that is all the media portrays
I hate it when guys message me and say 'big tits they must be heavy '

thanks x

that was where it all started and has now made me feel rotten for even to dare to think about how we feel
and it was headed
size does not matter ...

thanks all x

 

[Pearls]

This is for everyone who is of the more fuller figure, it is okay to feel sexy and good, you do not have to dress to impress, do it for you and embrace your body.
I am tired of seeing magazines full of the other figure because for years that is all the media portrays
I hate it when guys message me and say 'big tits they must be heavy '

thanks x

Magazines have got it wrong for years. Stick thin models advertising anorexia to now the extreme where we have obese models which I’m sorry but isn’t healthy and has the same health risks. I have someone in my family who is young and obese, she has numerous health problems including diabetes. For me size matters. There should be a more balanced medium. You never see 14-20 models for example.

 

[Deleted member 16044]

Magazines have got it wrong for years. Stick thin models advertising anorexia to now the extreme where we have obese models which I’m sorry but isn’t healthy and has the same health risks. I have someone in my family who is young and obese, she has numerous health problems including diabetes. For me size matters. There should be a more balanced medium. You never see 14-20 models for example.

No, I was too slender back then when asked to model Frank Usher clothes the outfits were gorgeous but sadly not on me

 

[Deleted member 16044]

So if size matters to some then they have a low attitude?

and drag others down ?

 

[Pearls]

and drag others down ?

So I’m dragging others down because I have a personal preference?

 

[Deleted member 3411]

So if size matters to some then they have a low attitude?

No no no.... those who belittle folk over size... or race, colour..... preference is FINE, but knowingly making anyone feel bad isn't an express of preference.
If it looked I was saying what you thought my apologies.

 

[Pearls]

No no no.... those who belittle folk over size... or race, colour..... preference is FINE, but making anyone feel bad isn't an express of preference.
If it looked I was saying what you thought my apologies.

Just wanted to clarify ??

 

[Deleted member 16044]

So if size matters to some then they have a low attitude?

others bad attitude towards you. ?
what is this attitude?
Bad attitude is surely frowned

The “SIZE” issue when I get back from Folkestone tonight I am going to post something here that I don’t think I have ever told anyone about me and my life ...
I don’t know if it will but hopefully it will put a perspective on how I feel about size .. I’ll let you all be the judge and jury ....

I’ll let you all be the judge and jury .... are you saying we are here to judge people I certainly am not this site is not for people to judge I thought x

 

[MP386]

others bad attitude towards you. ?
what is this attitude?
Bad attitude is surely frowned

I’ll let you all be the judge and jury .... are you saying we are here to judge people I certainly am not this site is not for people to judge I thought x

My post was about me and my size .... thought that was clear enough ,maybe not ,if I ask for peoples opinions or judgements that’s me asking .!!
This negativity has rolled on long enough, I’m here to have fun not grief so I won’t answer anymore posts on this thread ....

 

[Pearls]

Wow @MP386 if you want a giggle then reread 11 pages here ???

 

[MP386]

Wow @MP386 if you want a giggle then reread 11 pages here ???

It’s not that funny ... I remember all that grief .....