This will run on and on will we get a definitive answer, I doubt it ...
Ever since I’ve joined ,people come and go each having there preferences to what they want or don’t want , exactly the same as in everyday life ....
When people join you welcome them , try to help them settle in , answer questions if there’s difficulties, part of that can be flirty banter... we all like being made to feel at ease ... but sometimes things are written as has been said before we interpret things in different ways .... these post shape how we see the person on the other end of the key board , this is a swinging site we are trying to gauge if there may be an interest, it would be extremely boring if every message was about the weather ...
I sure I’m no different to everyone else , this has to be fun .. when I read posts and notice things being said that appear to be digs at individuals , it would instantly make me think what sort of person are they really like ,we all won’t like one another,we won’t jump into bed with one another ...