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So, What Do You Consider Yourself To Be In The Bdsm Lifestyle..?

What do you consider yourself to be in the BDSM lifestyle..?

  • A Dom

    Votes: 8 18.6%
  • A Domme

    Votes: 1 2.3%
  • A sub

    Votes: 25 58.1%
  • A little

    Votes: 1 2.3%
  • A Daddy Dom

    Votes: 2 4.7%
  • A Switch

    Votes: 22 51.2%

  • Total voters
    43
7 December 2017
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Bristol
Not sure really, would like to understand more first, I guess being the boss all day would make me more dominant but then the first thing I want to do is step away from that role when I leave work so it would be nice to have that reverse role if that makes any sense. X
 
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MOTM

18 July 2015
55,116
121,051
Perfect sense to me
 
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Terryg

Plenty of good reading on here in the forums.
Can recommend dipping your toes in...
 
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Terryg

Anything you can suggest x


For a start Menu/Forums/Bdsm

Lots of topics, see if anything takes your fancy, makes you think.

Personally just dipping my toes in, I'm sure there are better qualified than me. Trust is a huge thing for me...and it's not just about pain as a lot of people believe. Huge subject.
 
9 September 2017
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Well, I've offered to show you but you've just ignored me

So you've lost your chance now

You could strip naked, crawl across the floor on all fours, tell me you've been a naughty girl and beg me to spank you and I'd just ignore you....maybe...perhaps....oh, alright then, damn I've got no willpower and no self-respect :mwah:
 
19 March 2015
23,755
64,858
lol
Am sure it's innocent enough
 
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MOTM

18 July 2015
55,116
121,051
@MP386 see this chat up line. @Antogs
 
12 April 2018
33
463
I'm definitely Sub...
As you saw with my status I did try switch the other day and although it was an enjoyable experience and something new to try.. it just didn't give me the same 'kick'.

I guess it's proved to me that I can do it 'if' required, but it also proved to me just how sub I am...
 
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LongHairedSamson80

Hey depends on which night of the week It Is, I like to and change rolls so i tried to tick all the boxes,
But they do say variety Is the spice of life
 
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Deleted member 11094

Nice to see so many inputs on this one. I chose sub & switch because I am still evolving and learning. Each year I do that bdsm quiz, it is interesting to see things that stay the same and things that change. Here is the link: BDSM Test: What kind of sexual deviant are you?

== Results from bdsmtest.org == 2019
100% Rope bunny
100% Non-monogamist
99% Voyeur
98% Exhibitionist
96% Submissive
94% Experimentalist
75% Pet
70% Primal (Prey)
63% Boy/Girl
63% Slave
62% Switch
62% Masochist
61% Owner
56% Primal (Hunter)
48% Daddy/Mommy
46% Ageplayer
9% Rigger
3% Vanilla
2% Dominant
1% Brat tamer
0% Degrader
0% Master/Mistress
0% Sadist
 
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