The way/way not to introduce yourself in a message

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Admin

Admin
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Well if anyone does receive anything abusive, harmful or nasty etc then report it.
If they're being idiots, just tell them straight and leave the PM, if need be even block the account.
Too many assumptive people around, that's half the problem x
 
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meet_the_fockers

First message, hmm gauge the recipent first...
That is of course if youve given it time.. to know what kind of person they are.
As a rule of thumb.
How do you think it would go down..
If you approached someone in the pub and said, I'm horny.. can i come on your tits.. ?
Get the idea?
:D
 
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The_Bibas

First message, hmm gauge the recipent first...
That is of course if youve given it time.. to know what kind of person they are.
As a rule of thumb.
How do you think it would go down..
If you approached someone in the pub and said, I'm horny.. can i come on your tits.. ?
Get the idea?
:D
Or showing their cock...
Lol
 
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Bobbie

Maybe some solo males or males of couples mistakenly assume the scene to be instant sex and approach
as they understand they should in a " are you home right now for a bareback quickie" ( received today elsewhere )
rather than in their own style which I bet is really " I feel horny sometimes and don't get enough or any at home
and wondered if we could meet and see how it goes" or I only get vanilla and need a kink ( keep the lights on).
Some actually get shirty for not instantly craving after their body or is it just an intolerance to being declined taken as a snub.?
 

Therapon

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11 August 2015
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First message, hmm gauge the recipent first...
That is of course if youve given it time.. to know what kind of person they are.
As a rule of thumb.
How do you think it would go down..
If you approached someone in the pub and said, I'm horny.. can i come on your tits.. ?
Get the idea?
:D

I'll let you know how it goes :)
 
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Bobbie

I would hope they would reply Oh please do cum on my tits stranger, I thought you would never ask
and would you mind if whilst on my knees in my stockings heels and suspenders and little black dress around my waist
I suck you off until you cum in my mouth and over my tits.
 
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meet_the_fockers

I would hope they would reply Oh please do cum on my tits stranger, I thought you would never ask
and would you mind if whilst on my knees in my stockings heels and suspenders and little black dress around my waist
I suck you off until you cum in my mouth and over my tits.
God loves a tryer..
I suspect the boys in blue.. may think differently :)
 
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Sammy

Well I have to say I have had some fantastic hello messages and some absolutely horrendous ones

There. are some fantastic examples of single guys on this site

I've had many discussions with some of the genuine single males and when I told them some of the introductions they were horrified .

So here are some of the ways not to introduce yourself

Oh I have a fetish for fat
Oh I need to bag a big bird
Mmmmm I like cows can I milk you
Random dic pics
Yep your my type deffo on my fucket list
Wow great tits can I fuck them
Sexy lips Hun can you wrap them round my cock

Just a few little examples

Sx
 
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Bobbie

How about:-
I am looking for sex now and again with a sexy woman or her and her partner.
I am straight, shaved, clean,cut, broadminded, not particularly into anything,
safe, intelligent, reliable, married and can meet day times and some evenings.
Very happy to meet speculatively and see how we get on, hopefully
to meet repeatedly. Based near Aylesbury/Thame can travel and accommodate.
Attached photo in jest but more available if you might be interested.
Your photo welcomed but if you prefer would speculate meeting without one.
Phone call before meeting requested.
Bobbie
 
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How about:-
I am looking for sex now and again with a sexy woman or her and her partner.
I am straight, shaved, clean,cut, broadminded, not particularly into anything,
safe, intelligent, reliable, married and can meet day times and some evenings.
Very happy to meet speculatively and see how we get on, hopefully
to meet repeatedly. Based near Aylesbury/Thame can travel and accommodate.
Attached photo in jest but more available if you might be interested.
Your photo welcomed but if you prefer would speculate meeting without one.
Phone call before meeting requested.
Bobbie
Ooo married not the solo male then lol
 
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How about:-
I am looking for sex now and again with a sexy woman or her and her partner.
I am straight, shaved, clean,cut, broadminded, not particularly into anything,
safe, intelligent, reliable, married and can meet day times and some evenings.
Very happy to meet speculatively and see how we get on, hopefully
to meet repeatedly. Based near Aylesbury/Thame can travel and accommodate.
Attached photo in jest but more available if you might be interested.
Your photo welcomed but if you prefer would speculate meeting without one.
Phone call before meeting requested.
Bobbie
Isn't this more of a bio than a thread opinion?
 
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Bobbie

Guilty. My real interest is meeting a woman solo or as part of a couple for a sex based friendship.
 
Pearls

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Guilty. My real interest is meeting a woman solo or as part of a couple for a sex based friendship.
Yes hun I think we know, you have mentioned this in every thread, try and keep to the topic of the thread and members can actually interact with you. (y)
 
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